How secure can you make feel someone is always a question you need to ask yourself. I mean not always the right thing to think but when the time comes, when you know think you are a dominant species, can you make the others feel secure?
Everyone in any one world looks forward to a great society, where one can be the best or do the best but does your gender or your status or your position makes you superior to the other?
Being a man, I have listened to several scenarios of how being men have shown their dominance over women. But now I truly understand the insecurity of the so-assumed lower status due to my encounter with such experiences, where my close ones had to face situations of inequality because someone believe they are superior to the other.
What makes you superior?
Is it the genital you have grown or the professional experience you have? What makes you feel so proud and dominant? I'm sure it's not something you have achieved out of your efforts and hard work.
why do you take pride in your position or your status?
I'm sure you have achieved it so effortlessly or passed it on to you that you never realized its worth.
"As below so as above, as above so as below."
We are all equal irrespective of who we are. I understand for many it feels like some radical shitty words but once you can connect to the statement or once you experienced it, you'll truly correlate with it
Let me give the best example of the situation.
Social Discriminations: Race/Gender/Status !!
I'm sure everyone agrees that women are as equal to men. I'm sure at this time period people doesn't discriminate in correspondence with many things, but discrimination towards one's status, and gender is stills seen in society.
If you are a man, does it gives you the right to tease a woman and pass some absurd comment about her? This question itself sounds very lame and rubbish to assume for many as it's a general scenario that happens in many discussions. I mean yeah!! What's wrong with that?
But, Have you ever experienced a situation where some strange man comments on your female friend or taps her or irritates her for his satisfaction because he is a man? Now do you feel good or being a man would you fight for your friend? I'm sure you want to protect her from such shitty bastards but have you ever considered the possibility that you have promoted such actions?
It's not a question of one judging you, nor saying that you pushed someone to practice the taboo but I just want to put forward that you being a man, a friend of a man, you not stopping him doesn't make any difference. If he had a thought and no one opposed him or even if you did not put your thought in front of him saying that it's not the correct path to choose, he will eventually at one point, when he is not in his right mindset or drunk or conscious or subconscious he might make that mistake.
Don't ever think that it's his choice or it's ok to keep your thoughts to yourself.
Sometimes, especially when you feel that your close one is on the wrong path, make sure to put out the word that it's wrong, you don't even need to give a direction towards the right path just say, "bruhh!! I don't feel good about it", in your own way. If you understood, you saved yourself or your bruh from a shit. Yes, we don't live in an ideal world but the least we can do is keep the ideal self within us alive.
In this world of inequality, thankfully so-called colored people survived the critical phase and now co-exist as equals but women are still struggling their way through certain inequalities. Yes!! we do consider them equal but I don't think not in every aspect. It's not because we don't want to give them complete freedom but we know that some men are still trash. I won't even argue about all women are understanding many who have actually not struggled rant about inequality.
I'm happy to come across such female friends who were strong enough to survive the dominance. But sometimes it bothers me as they have to struggle just because of the existence of such shitheads. I have seen them ignore and move forward, I have seen them asking not to prolong the nuisance even though they want to slap the 'pig's face', and I have seen them accepting the fact that the shit will exist.
Being on the polar edge, as a man, It's hard to empathize with such issues or situations but it's not that hard to understand and accept that it's wrong.
"Dominance isn't just about gender, it's a thought that grows into a personality"
One of my personal projects is to create a "Resource-based society" as part of my "Omni series", I thought to develop guidelines for a society where everyone can just focus on what they want to do without worrying about money and financial status but I just realized if the understanding on equality doesn't exist it never will be an ideal society. Equality isn't just in gender but in corresponding with everything above and below.
For some, it might find rude or arguable or understanding, I agree and looking forward to your comments. It would help me build better guidelines.
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